Maanush ek adbhuut praanee. naa, philosophically bolchhi naa, biologically. maanusher janmo theke beRe othaa, sabtaai jeno kemon shrishti chhaaRa, bekhappa. keno bolchi? explain korlei bojhaa jaabe byaparta.

prithibee te maanush chhaaRa joto jaanowar aachhe, sabaai hoy janmer por thekei besh swabolombee thaake, noyto alpo kichhudin por thekei swabolombee hoye jaay. arthaat maayer aashroye thaaka childhood ta khub beshidiner hoy naa. kintu maanusher belaay byaparta besh anyarakam. Ohe paathok, tumi nijei bhaabo naa, koddin tumi childhood ta upobhog korechho? antoto 14 bochhor to hobei. eibaar bhaabo to, goru’r baachhur kodin childhood upobhog kore? maximum 6 maas theke 1 bochhor. tumi bolbe, gorur lifespan kom. achchha haathi’r katha bhaabo. lifespan 80 bochhor praay. ekta haathir bachchha kodin bachcha thaake? 2 bochhor, 3 bochhor, max-to-max 5 bochhor. aar tumi? 14!!!!

er kaaron ta ki? kaaron ta holo, tumi jonmechhile bheeshon underdeveloped abosthaay. shaareerik dik theke noy, maanosik dik theke.tumi jakhan jonmechhile, takhan tomaar mostishker sange ektaa sadyajaato bNaador bachchar kono tofaat chhilo naa. kintu ekhon tomaar sange ekta dheRe bNaador er anek tofaat (aasha kori 😉 ). naa, to be serious, aasol kathaay asa jaak. ei tofaat ta keno? ki kore? aamra etaa to sabaai jaani, je maanush je sacheye buddhimaan praanee. taa taai-i jodi hobe, to se kichhutaa buddhi niyei jonmaay naa keno? keno se omon underdeveloped hoye jonmaay?

er uttor holo prokriti. ek oti bichitraa mohila, jini bichitro sab upaaye  nana jotil samasyar sahaj samaadhaan kore thaaken. ei byaparer blue print ta tini aagei toiri rekhechhilen. seta holo marsupial solution. arthaat kangaroo’r khetre jemon ta ahoy. bachcha taa jonmaay khub khuuuub underdeveloped abosthaay. taarpor development ta hoy taar maar womb er baaire, pouch er bhetore. kintu ei kaayda maanusher opor apply koraa keno? kaaron, maanusher jodi jonmo hoy developed abosthaay, tar braincase, ebong taar fole matha taa, etotaai boRo hobe, je maayer birth canal diye pass-i korbe naa. fole prokriti’r sahaj samaadhan- jonmo ta to hoye jaak underdeveloped abasthaay, taar por hok na ataar development. dheere susthe. taar jonye to taar guchchher family member aachhei. maanush to social jaanowaar.

er fole jeta hoy, prothom 5 bochhor, ekta maanusher bachchar mostishker growth hoy exponential rate e. se ek taajjob byapar! eto druuto aar eto jotil hoy sei mostishker growth, je bachcha taa ekaa taal raakhte paare naa. takhan taake support dey taar oi sei ‘guchchher family member’. shudhu taai noy, paaRapoRshi, bondhu-baandhob sabaai. aar ei support taai paarthokyo goRe dey. je joto beshi maanusher saanyidhyo paay, se toto bhaalobhaabe beRe othbaar sujog paay.

etoduur to khub bhaalo katha, kintu prokriti’r opor bawal dewaar swabhaab to bhaai maanusher konodin-o jaabe naa. eto subidhe kroe dewaar poreo maanush sei sujog helaay haarate boesechhe. as usual, nijer doshe.

dindin aamra fragmented hoye jachchhi. society-wise, ebong family-wise. nuclear family dindin beRei cholechhe, jekhaane bab-maa dujonei kaaje byasto. aar shishu taar sthaan hoy aya’r kaachhe (je TV dekhte byasto) aar naahoy creche-e (jekhaane individual care konomotei sambhaab noy). aage joint aar extended family te kaka-kaki, jetha-jethi, thakudda-thakuma, ityadi sabaar aadre-shaashone je bachchata thikthaak beRe uthto, ekhon se eka eka kono guidance chhaaRa beRe uthchhe aagaacha’r moton. etaa amader deshe abashyai poshchimi probhaab, aar er effect taao poshchimi deshe aaro prokot. sekhaane anti-social activities anek beshi. aamader desheo baaRchhe aaste aaste.

aar socially? haan sekhaaneo aamra eka hoye jachchhi. ohe 24-25 bochhor boyesi paathok, mone achhe chhotobelaay tumi-aami kibhaabe paaRatuto kaku-jethu der kaachhe dhomok-thaappoR-kaanmolaa kheyechhi? aar sei niye baaRite naalish korte ele shunte hoto, ‘thik-i to bolechhen uni. tomaar bhaalor jonyei to bolechhen.’ ekhon tumi jodi tomaar paaRar ekti bachchake dhomok dite paarbe? kono anyay korchhe dekhleo? tokkhuni taar baap-maa ese tomaakei du’katha shuniye debe, ‘aamar chhele korechhe, besh korechhe. aapnar taate ki moshaai?”

Africate Nyani bhaashay ekta probaad aachhe, “ekta shishuke maanush kore gotaa ekta graam”. tathaakothito asabhya jaati raa jaa sahaje bojhe, aamra ‘sabhya’ maanushraa keno bujhinaa segulo?

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