Maanush ek adbhuut praanee. naa, philosophically bolchhi naa, biologically. maanusher janmo theke beRe othaa, sabtaai jeno kemon shrishti chhaaRa, bekhappa. keno bolchi? explain korlei bojhaa jaabe byaparta.
prithibee te maanush chhaaRa joto jaanowar aachhe, sabaai hoy janmer por thekei besh swabolombee thaake, noyto alpo kichhudin por thekei swabolombee hoye jaay. arthaat maayer aashroye thaaka childhood ta khub beshidiner hoy naa. kintu maanusher belaay byaparta besh anyarakam. Ohe paathok, tumi nijei bhaabo naa, koddin tumi childhood ta upobhog korechho? antoto 14 bochhor to hobei. 
eibaar bhaabo to, goru’r baachhur kodin childhood upobhog kore? maximum 6 maas theke 1 bochhor. tumi bolbe, gorur lifespan kom. achchha haathi’r katha bhaabo. lifespan 80 bochhor praay. ekta haathir bachchha kodin bachcha thaake? 2 bochhor, 3 bochhor, max-to-max 5 bochhor. aar tumi? 14!!!!
er kaaron ta ki? kaaron ta holo, tumi jonmechhile bheeshon underdeveloped abosthaay. shaareerik dik theke noy, maanosik dik theke.tumi jakhan jonmechhile, takhan tomaar mostishker sange ektaa sadyajaato bNaador bachchar kono tofaat chhilo naa. kintu ekhon tomaar sange ekta dheRe bNaador er anek tofaat (aasha kori 😉 ). naa, to be serious, aasol kathaay asa jaak. ei tofaat ta keno? ki kore? aamra etaa to sabaai jaani, je maanush je sacheye buddhimaan praanee. taa taai-i jodi hobe, to se kichhutaa buddhi niyei jonmaay naa keno? keno se omon underdeveloped hoye jonmaay?
er uttor holo prokriti. ek oti bichitraa mohila, jini bichitro sab upaaye nana jotil samasyar sahaj samaadhaan kore thaaken. ei byaparer blue print ta tini aagei toiri rekhechhilen. seta holo marsupial solution. arthaat kangaroo’r khetre jemon ta ahoy. bachcha taa jonmaay khub khuuuub underdeveloped abosthaay. taarpor development ta hoy taar maar womb er baaire, pouch er bhetore. kintu ei kaayda maanusher opor apply koraa keno? kaaron, maanusher jodi jonmo hoy developed abosthaay, tar braincase, ebong taar fole matha taa, etotaai boRo hobe, je maayer birth canal diye pass-i korbe naa. fole prokriti’r sahaj samaadhan- jonmo ta to hoye jaak underdeveloped abasthaay, taar por hok na ataar development. dheere susthe. taar jonye to taar guchchher family member aachhei. maanush to social jaanowaar.
er fole jeta hoy, prothom 5 bochhor, ekta maanusher bachchar mostishker growth hoy exponential rate e. se ek taajjob byapar! eto druuto aar eto jotil hoy sei mostishker growth, je bachcha taa ekaa taal raakhte paare naa. takhan taake support dey taar oi sei ‘guchchher family member’. shudhu taai noy, paaRapoRshi, bondhu-baandhob sabaai. aar ei support taai paarthokyo goRe dey. je joto beshi maanusher saanyidhyo paay, se toto bhaalobhaabe beRe othbaar sujog paay.
etoduur to khub bhaalo katha, kintu prokriti’r opor bawal dewaar swabhaab to bhaai maanusher konodin-o jaabe naa. eto subidhe kroe dewaar poreo maanush sei sujog helaay haarate boesechhe. as usual, nijer doshe.
dindin aamra fragmented hoye jachchhi. society-wise, ebong family-wise. nuclear family dindin beRei cholechhe, jekhaane bab-maa dujonei kaaje byasto. 
aar shishu taar sthaan hoy aya’r kaachhe (je TV dekhte byasto) aar naahoy creche-e (jekhaane individual care konomotei sambhaab noy). aage joint aar extended family te kaka-kaki, jetha-jethi, thakudda-thakuma, ityadi sabaar aadre-shaashone je bachchata thikthaak beRe uthto, ekhon se eka eka kono guidance chhaaRa beRe uthchhe aagaacha’r moton. etaa amader deshe abashyai poshchimi probhaab, aar er effect taao poshchimi deshe aaro prokot. sekhaane anti-social activities anek beshi. aamader desheo baaRchhe aaste aaste.
aar socially? haan sekhaaneo aamra eka hoye jachchhi. ohe 24-25 bochhor boyesi paathok, mone achhe chhotobelaay tumi-aami kibhaabe paaRatuto kaku-jethu der kaachhe dhomok-thaappoR-kaanmolaa kheyechhi? aar sei niye baaRite naalish korte ele shunte hoto, ‘thik-i to bolechhen uni. tomaar bhaalor jonyei to bolechhen.’ ekhon tumi jodi tomaar paaRar ekti bachchake dhomok dite paarbe? kono anyay korchhe dekhleo? tokkhuni taar baap-maa ese tomaakei du’katha shuniye debe, ‘aamar chhele korechhe, besh korechhe. aapnar taate ki moshaai?”
Africate Nyani bhaashay ekta probaad aachhe, “ekta shishuke maanush kore gotaa ekta graam”. tathaakothito asabhya jaati raa jaa sahaje bojhe, aamra ‘sabhya’ maanushraa keno bujhinaa segulo?
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September 6, 2009 at 8:32 am
alokananda
ami obak hoay pori tumi kamon korey eto bhalo lekho.excellent lekha hoaychey go.keep it up always.accha tumi tomar paratey chotobelai kokhono karur kachey kanmola ba thappor kheycho kono onyai korey.ami kokhono khaini.jodi khey thako taley tomar koto kosto hoaychilo tai bhabchi.
September 6, 2009 at 8:53 am
Bongpen
“Prokriti ek bichitro mohila”
🙂
Bhaari sundor!
September 6, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Princess
Aami to princess. Princess k shashon korar khamota kaar ache.
sudhu maa baba. tara thikthak guide korechen ebong korchhen.
tobe haan, ami ekta katha mani mane manusher jonyo applicable seta j ekjon k prithibi te anle taake jara eneche tader bisal dayitto taake thik thak manush hisebe gore tola. Etayi jeevan er sabcheye baro kaj.
September 6, 2009 at 10:37 pm
Joy Forever
Oma – ki bolchho? Ma baba je mathar gham paaye fele poisa rojgar korchhen… tai diye video game kine dichchhen, computer kine dichchhen, DVD kine dichchhen, cable TV lagiye dichchhen ta kichhu noy bujhi? Tomra chhotobelay konodin McDonalds e kheyechho? Akhonkar bachchara o chhara mukhei tolena. Tomar labh ta ki hoyechhe shuni? Hoyechho to pagla dashu (Akhonkar bachchara jaar naam shunle chinbei na, ar ma-babara bolbe “O ashole bengali tay ektu weak to tai… achchha Sukumar Ray’r english translation kothay pabo bolun to?”). Tumi ki bolte parbe Pokemon koy prokar ebong ki ki? Nai ba janlo tara gurujonder samman korte! Esab sekele dhyan dharona niye pore thakle cholbe?
Shudhu golmal ektai – Americay e bhabe chhele manus korbar por tara bari chhere chole jaay ektu baro holei, ar baba mao nijeder swadhin mone kore. Amader deshe ayar kole-pithe kore manush howa babusonara jei girlfriend er haat dhore haanta day omni tar baba ma thyang chhoriye kaandte bosen. Bhebe dyakhen na je se chheleta family kaake bole sebhabe shekheini.
September 8, 2009 at 5:36 am
Ekla Pothik
E bapar e sabar opore ache bodhay maachh mane fish. Ora to dim parar porei chanapona (rather would be chanapona der) jolanjoli (ogadh jole fele deoao bola jete pare) diye dai, abar nijerao sei dim khay bole shunechi. eram poristhiti te porle amra kothay jetam ke jane. tobe akhon amra oi machh er dikei jacchhi. amar bondhu aar or bou dujonei chakri kore. oder bachha ta 7 month premature hoyechilo, jathesto week aar 3 month ICU te chilo. aar akhon barite ashar por MASHI er kache manush hocchhe 4 month bayas thekei. baap ta bangali ma ta marathi, meye ta je ki bhasha shikhbe setai prothom concern hoye uthbe. aage aage to aaro anek kichui habe. kintu karur kichu karar o nei. ache ki?
September 10, 2009 at 3:30 am
Kuntala
tothyopurno bhalo lekha,ebong interesting comments. Amader-somoy-e-sob-bhalo-chhilo, aar ekhonkar-projonmo-sob-gollay-gechhe gochher chena aabeg. byaparta holo giye je ei aabeg ta constant. Ekhonkar bachchara McDonald e khachche, video game khelchhe, bangla bolte parchhe na dekhe aamader jotokhani gaa jwolchhe, aamader dekhe aamader baba-thakurda r eki rokom gaatrodaaho hoto, tobe karon gulo ektu bhinno chhilo, ei ja. Aar Sukumar Ray poreni bole dukkher kichhu nei, aamrao anekei Troilokyonath Mukhopadhyay chNuye dekhini.
aar shudhu chhelera i girlfriend er haat dhore hNata maarchhe na, meyerao jug jug dhore baba maa r opochhonder chheletar sathe elope korchhe. Hoyto chheleder theke beshi i korchhe. still, meyeder ei ‘chhele-dhora’ image ta aamader kolpona r saathe bhari suit kore. keno ke jane.
September 13, 2009 at 4:07 am
Byangoma Byangomi
bhalo laglo…onnyo lekha gulo’r cheye ektu alada…..
September 21, 2009 at 3:44 am
Joy Forever
@Kuntala: Comment er beshirbhag ta amakei lekha. tai ami-i uttor dichchhi. Amar mone hoy ektu misunderstanding hochchhe – ami Sukumar Ray na pora ta ke importance diyini, Bangla na porata ke dite cheyechhilam, ba adou boi-i na pora ta ke dite cheyechhilam.
Ar oi girlfriend er haath dhore haanta mara ta te ami meyeder doshi korini. Ami jeta bolte cheyechhi seta holo je chhelera traditionally baba maayer sange thakto. Akhon tara alada hoye jachche karon tader baba maa keo taai korte dekhechhe, ebong western riti eitai. Western upbringing korle baba maayeder etao mene newa uchit, ar ta na manle sabeki joint family style-e chhele manush kora uchit. Ei expectation ar reality’r mismatch thekei jato ashanti.